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  • LOVE, RELATIONSHIP AND ITS TYPES




  • Hello good Day readers it's been a while i write something so today I have decided to write something about relationship and love. Here are the types of relationship and Love.


    Love can be defined As a strong affection towards someone. Relationship in other way can be referred to as Association between two person Or the ways in which two people behave  And involved in each other. 


    1. Unconditional Love : This is the type of love that happen unexpectedly to the extent you cant explain how and when you started developing feelings for someone. In this category people often fall in love with whom they couldn't ever imagine to be with. This type of love is rare and seems not to exist but it does just that it is rare. That type of relationship whereby your boyfriend is broke, ugly and despite the fact that you are not benefiting anything from him you still keep falling in love with him is what we described as unconditional love. When I was still attending to relationships matter on poly TV last year I received a message from a guy then who said he fell in love  with a lady who happens to be deaf, according to him he really love her despite that she's physically Challenged in which to me I think that's unconditional love. Unconditional love sometimes are illustrated as True Love because unconditional love doesn't care whether you are a Muslim or Christian, unconditional love doesn't bother about whether you are Igbo, Hausa or Yoruba they just focused on loving one another.  People no longer believe in unconditional love or should I say unconditional love happens unexpectedly because you will just be asking yourself "why  am I dating this person"  the love is strong and most times it usually leads to marriage.   The challenges of unconditional love is patience, covetousness and time as we all know our ladies nowadays can't wait for a man they prefer to go for the already made and likewise the guys they find it hard to stick to one woman and many of them lack patience as a result of this can cause the love to fade away.  

    If you fall to this category of unconditional love try not to allow impatience, covetousness to kill the love vibe. Appreciate what you have and believe in the future with your man/Woman. And if you are lucky to find a unconditional love pls never take him/Her for granted else you may regret it later in life. Be focused.


    2.  INFLUENCE LOVE:  This is the type Of love you develop for someone based on his influence like maybe popularity, official position or money most times influence love isn't genuine love. That type of love you have For Davido, wizkid, Burna etc is referred to as influence love. Sometimes you see  People drawing these artists tattoo on their body to express their love well no matter how the circumstances it is still influence. Example are SUG presidents these Comrades are likely to have many ladies crushing on them and once they leave the position the vibe dies so this type of love isn't real love. I have experienced this tho right from time people often love or hate me from my write ups the experience I had  only then When a lady told Me I am her crush that she loved me and wanted to know who POLY TV is it started well regular chats and calls not until she met me in real life then she discovered that we can't Be together 😂. Although Influence  love can end well atimes but the truth is it is scam. People often go for influence love because of their own gain, If you draw my tattoo for body and I have money you know I may definitely compensate you like bobrisky did 😂 But we all know the love isn't genuine it is just because of my influence. The fact is if I ask a lady out using POLY TV I might get a yes and that yes isn't because she truly loves me but because of the influence and later later the relationship won't end well. I don't know if this illustration matches but I think I think we can still use Davido and Chioma as influence relationship. Whatever the circumstances might be my point Here is that don't mistake influence love for true love or unconditional love. Because you have followers doesn't mean you are loved a case study of one Auchi polytechnic SUG aspirant that contested last year hoping to win because of his influence but yet students didn't vote for him. Money can only buy you influence love and not genuine love.  The moment you start developing feelings for somebody because of a particular reason just know that it may end you in tears. You fall in love with me because of popularity No be juju be that??  😂  if your relationship started as influence relationship try as much as possible to make it solid.


    3. TRUE LOVE:  True Love Doesn't exist among humans. The only true love I know exist is God and after God is nobody even mothers love is still unconditional love. It Is hard to find someone that will love you for whom you are or what you have become. For example if you are poor you can't experience True Love and even if you are rich you can't experience true love either as people may likely love you because of your influence of money. God's love is the only true love followed by self love  That is even the reason why God told us to love our neighbor as ourself because he knows that selflove is the only genuine love. True love is actually the best love but it seems not to exist as only those who are Close to God or understands his(God) message can experience true love in their love. Maybe you still don't understand my point, I am trying to teach you to love yourself first, you can't give what you don't have. You soak garri for house and buying sharwarma for girlfriend this is stupidity and not true love. You are doing giveaway online while your parents are starving oga love yourself first and stop proving fake love to others besides they say charity begins at home.  You joined illegal business because of quick money to satisfy your girlfriend 😨😨 Girlfriend that won't follow you to prison Can you see now that you don't love yourself.  Mr Ajay my Chemistry lecturer said "Love your neighbour as yourself not love your neighbor more than yourself"  I can't love anyone more than I love myself.


     I don't know if you  have been craving for truelove for so long time I am here to remind you to that for you to experience true love you have to learn how to love yourself first. Appreciate yourself, always love yourself, appreciate your beauty, appreciate the man/woman you are becoming, be proud of your parents, be proud of your job.  The moment you start bleaching your skin because you want to make a man love you you need to know that That  is not true love.  You denied your parents because you want your boyfriend to love you 😂😂😂 The truth is if he finds out the truth will he still love you the same way ?? Most times we are shouting no true love whereas we can't even love ourselves and our neighbors.  
    also going through loneliness I just want you to know that there is nothing like self love you have to love yourself first .

    While loving yourself don't forget to care for your neighbors too I mean don't wish me death if you don't want you die young because what is the goose is also good for the Ganger.


    PARASITIC  LOVE:  This is the type of love where one gain and the other loose. In this category you hear "Let me just chop his money and run"  "Make I chop her toto and dump her".  I will just advice you to stop causing problems for yourself if you don't love them let them be, stop playing peoples feelings under the guise of love. Stop using love love as a Business center. Maybe you still don't know What  parasitic love and relationship means, in a situation whereby you are using your own Interest  to  Kill your partner example is asking someone that is still being fed by his parent to pay your school fees. Collecting money from a man whom you never had feelings for but kept deceiving him because of money. You keep Fucking  All the girls In the street Under the guise of love. Let me just remind you that parasite may enjoy lot of benefits from its host but at the end parasite always die and that is if the host survived it. Therefore if you are in a parasitic relationship it is better you get rid of that parasite you call your boyfriend or girlfriend before they kill you(Milk you dry or ruin your life) Under the guise of love.


    In nutshell, Whatever category of love You find yourself  Just bear in mind that love should not be one sided. Try as much as possible to love people the way you love yourself. Don't wish them death as much as, you don't want to die young. Don't tamper with people's feelings for your own selfish interest.  Always have it at mind that love comes with sacrifice whatever you may have sacrificed for love in your life Don't always expect  Something in return because love and relationship is not give and Take some people sacrifice their virginity, some sacrificed their career, money, business job for love whatever the case maybe before you make any sacrifices for love think twice. May the Almighty Allah/God grant us the spirit of love. Amen 🙏🙏🙏




    either you  meaning don't wait for others to show you love first before you show them love you can lead by Good  example.  Love is not about relationship alone there are sill family love, friendship love etc LOVE, RELATIONSHIP AND ITS TYPES 


    Hello good Day readers it's been a while i write something so today I have decided to write something about relationship and love. Here are the types of relationship and Love.


    Love can be defined As a strong affection towards someone. Relationship in other way can be referred to as Association between two person Or the ways in which two people behave  And involved in each other. 


    1. Unconditional Love : This is the type of love that happen unexpectedly to the extent you cant explain how and when you started developing feelings for someone. In this category people often fall in love with whom they couldn't ever imagine to be with. This type of love is rare and seems not to exist but it does just that it is rare. That type of relationship whereby your boyfriend is broke, ugly and despite the fact that you are not benefiting anything from him you still keep falling in love with him is what we described as unconditional love. When I was still attending to relationships matter on poly TV last year I received a message from a guy then who said he fell in love  with a lady who happens to be deaf, according to him he really love her despite that she's physically Challenged in which to me I think that's unconditional love. Unconditional love sometimes are illustrated as True Love because unconditional love doesn't care whether you are a Muslim or Christian, unconditional love doesn't bother about whether you are Igbo, Hausa or Yoruba they just focused on loving one another.  People no longer believe in unconditional love or should I say unconditional love happens unexpectedly because you will just be asking yourself "why  am I dating this person"  the love is strong and most times it usually leads to marriage.   The challenges of unconditional love is patience, covetousness and time as we all know our ladies nowadays can't wait for a man they prefer to go for the already made and likewise the guys they find it hard to stick to one woman and many of them lack patience as a result of this can cause the love to fade away.  

    If you fall to this category of unconditional love try not to allow impatience, covetousness to kill the love vibe. Appreciate what you have and believe in the future with your man/Woman. And if you are lucky to find a unconditional love pls never take him/Her for granted else you may regret it later in life. Be focused.


    2.  INFLUENCE LOVE:  This is the type Of love you develop for someone based on his influence like maybe popularity, official position or money most times influence love isn't genuine love. That type of love you have For Davido, wizkid, Burna etc is referred to as influence love. Sometimes you see  People drawing these artists tattoo on their body to express their love well no matter how the circumstances it is still influence. Example are SUG presidents these Comrades are likely to have many ladies crushing on them and once they leave the position the vibe dies so this type of love isn't real love. I have experienced this tho right from time people often love or hate me from my write ups the experience I had  only then When a lady told Me I am her crush that she loved me and wanted to know who POLY TV is it started well regular chats and calls not until she met me in real life then she discovered that we can't Be together 😂. Although Influence  love can end well atimes but the truth is it is scam. People often go for influence love because of their own gain, If you draw my tattoo for body and I have money you know I may definitely compensate you like bobrisky did 😂 But we all know the love isn't genuine it is just because of my influence. The fact is if I ask a lady out using POLY TV I might get a yes and that yes isn't because she truly loves me but because of the influence and later later the relationship won't end well. I don't know if this illustration matches but I think I think we can still use Davido and Chioma as influence relationship. Whatever the circumstances might be my point Here is that don't mistake influence love for true love or unconditional love. Because you have followers doesn't mean you are loved a case study of one Auchi polytechnic SUG aspirant that contested last year hoping to win because of his influence but yet students didn't vote for him. Money can only buy you influence love and not genuine love.  The moment you start developing feelings for somebody because of a particular reason just know that it may end you in tears. You fall in love with me because of popularity No be juju be that??  😂  if your relationship started as influence relationship try as much as possible to make it solid.


    3. TRUE LOVE:  True Love Doesn't exist among humans. The only true love I know exist is God and after God is nobody even mothers love is still unconditional love. It Is hard to find someone that will love you for whom you are or what you have become. For example if you are poor you can't experience True Love and even if you are rich you can't experience true love either as people may likely love you because of your influence of money. God's love is the only true love followed by self love  That is even the reason why God told us to love our neighbor as ourself because he knows that selflove is the only genuine love. True love is actually the best love but it seems not to exist as only those who are Close to God or understands his(God) message can experience true love in their love. Maybe you still don't understand my point, I am trying to teach you to love yourself first, you can't give what you don't have. You soak garri for house and buying sharwarma for girlfriend this is stupidity and not true love. You are doing giveaway online while your parents are starving oga love yourself first and stop proving fake love to others besides they say charity begins at home.  You joined illegal business because of quick money to satisfy your girlfriend 😨😨 Girlfriend that won't follow you to prison Can you see now that you don't love yourself.  Mr Ajay my Chemistry lecturer said "Love your neighbour as yourself not love your neighbor more than yourself"  I can't love anyone more than I love myself.


     I don't know if you  have been craving for truelove for so long time I am here to remind you to that for you to experience true love you have to learn how to love yourself first. Appreciate yourself, always love yourself, appreciate your beauty, appreciate the man/woman you are becoming, be proud of your parents, be proud of your job.  The moment you start bleaching your skin because you want to make a man love you you need to know that That  is not true love.  You denied your parents because you want your boyfriend to love you 😂😂😂 The truth is if he finds out the truth will he still love you the same way ?? Most times we are shouting no true love whereas we can't even love ourselves and our neighbors.  
    also going through loneliness I just want you to know that there is nothing like self love you have to love yourself first .

    While loving yourself don't forget to care for your neighbors too I mean don't wish me death if you don't want you die young because what is the goose is also good for the Ganger.


    PARASITIC  LOVE:  This is the type of love where one gain and the other loose. In this category you hear "Let me just chop his money and run"  "Make I chop her toto and dump her".  I will just advice you to stop causing problems for yourself if you don't love them let them be, stop playing peoples feelings under the guise of love. Stop using love love as a Business center. Maybe you still don't know What  parasitic love and relationship means, in a situation whereby you are using your own Interest  to  Kill your partner example is asking someone that is still being fed by his parent to pay your school fees. Collecting money from a man whom you never had feelings for but kept deceiving him because of money. You keep Fucking  All the girls In the street Under the guise of love. Let me just remind you that parasite may enjoy lot of benefits from its host but at the end parasite always die and that is if the host survived it. Therefore if you are in a parasitic relationship it is better you get rid of that parasite you call your boyfriend or girlfriend before they kill you(Milk you dry or ruin your life) Under the guise of love.


    In nutshell, Whatever category of love You find yourself  Just bear in mind that love should not be one sided. Try as much as possible to love people the way you love yourself. Don't wish them death as much as, you don't want to die young. Don't tamper with people's feelings for your own selfish interest.  Always have it at mind that love comes with sacrifice whatever you may have sacrificed for love in your life Don't always expect  Something in return because love and relationship is not give and Take some people sacrifice their virginity, some sacrificed their career, money, business job for love whatever the case maybe before you make any sacrifices for love think twice. May the Almighty Allah/God grant us the spirit of love. Amen 🙏🙏🙏




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