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  • THE ANGER OF A DICK DOES NOT TEAR THE PUSSY



  • Anger is A strong feeling of displeasure towards someone or something, usually combined with an urge to harm. There is no human that doesn't get angry but the problem is what happens anytime you get angry?? Anger has caused alot of problems for many people infact it has landed few in prisons, many lost their marriage to anger. There are many things that trigger anger which are frustration, cheating, displeasure, injustice etc 

    Above all there is one thing I want you to know that anger doesn't solve any problem it only makes things worse, anger pushes you to revenge and at the end you end up being the looser. Are you the type of person that gets angry easily? People have talked to you on several occasion but you haven't changed well I have a message for you today. The message I have for you is to let you know That the Anger of a dick does not tear the pussy.  You maybe wondering what does PUSSY and dick have to do with anger anyway keep reading you will understand later. 

    There are some aspects that you cant escape Anger, that is, there is no how perfect or how good you are  you may likely be  provoked which might spike your anger and these are 👉 

     BUSINESS:  The moment you start up a Business just be ready to control your nerves because there is how good you are that people won't step on your toes but how you react when people step on your toes Is  what matters as that is where anger starts from. I'm not saying you should tolerate nonsense but Sometimes you just have to letgo some shits why? Because that customer that insults you today might later patronize you tomorrow. I have learnt that anger doesn't solve any problem in any business rather it makes things worse. The last time I worked as sales boy people complained too much about me because I hate insults besides how can you be talking to a graduate anyhow but the moment I realized that the complaint was too much then I had to adjust when my boss tabled my matter. If you don't know how to control your Anger it will Spoil your business as an entrepreneur. The truth is we can't escape anger but how we handle it is what matters this reminds me of last month when a lady paid for an advert but I didn't deliver on time due to some technical issues When I came online I saw alot of disturbing messages and voice notes insulting me I was very very angry at that moment  I wanted to insult her back based on my anger but I hold on first I told her to send me her account number for refund in which she did I wanted to refund her but I had to rethink  if I send this money I am the one who loose because she won't do any advert with me again and secondly I will loose the money so this what was what I think and I said to myself "9japoly no let this anger make you loose money oo"  so I messaged her back and apologized instead of returning the insults promised to do her job explaining to her it was technical issues truth to God she just calm and told me to do it fast and  funniest thing is that this lady is one of my surest subscriber now she has been using my platform for advert since last year December 😂 had it been I reacted on my anger then that was how I would have loose her. I'm not saying you should take shits from people but my point is that don't always react on your anger because the consequences of anger is nothing to write home about. Anger can lead to fight and fight can lead to death. There is no how people won't provoke you and there is now how you won't get angry but try as much as possible as not to react based on your anger if you can practice this logic your business will grow. Some people will take you for a fool but sometimes the best way to fool a fool is to pretend like a fool. So plz minimize your anger.


    School and Society:  Are you the type of person that your school, class mates and lecturers already know you to be angry person and hot temper?? It's better you lean how to minimize this before it leads you to where you don't want. There was a lady in my department then in that year I have forgotten what the lecturer did or ask us to do but I remember her hissing when the lecturer asked her to get out of the class I think she was very very angry because what she did doesn't warrant her being sent out of the class so she  hissed while walking away our of class what if I tell you this lady didn't graduate with us she still carried the course despite begging this lecturer and sending many other lecturers to beg on her behalf. The lesson you have to learn here is that anger doesn't solve any problem you just have to think before taking action. She regret her actions because she reacted from her anger. Caution yourself my lady just small thing you have started raining cursing on me haba calm down now life is too short ooo.


    Alot of people have lost their beautiful relationship to this beast called anger, when they don't know how to control their emotions. Ordinary facebook post you have started cursing my family 😂 what if you see me face to face you will even shoot me dead if you have the chance. Some of us have this anger problem which is very bad we need to change now because of future purpose we need to lay a good foundation for our own generation if. What if you are employed as a police officer or solider tomorrow there is assurance that you will dehumanize anyone that step on your toes. Just because someone oppose you now you have started making threats imagine if you are police and you have gun you would have killed me if you had the chance just because of this your anger you better take it easy. Learn how to control your anger because that is the only way we can right the wrongs of our pasts. Presently in Nigeria I think the government is angry whenever they see oppressor or people agitating for their right instead of them to settle it with calm they use anger to solve it by arresting but sincerely speaking anger doesn't solve any problem.Anger kills your physically and spiritually Change!!!!


    As a Christian or Muslim you must try as much as possible to avoid this temptation called anger it can come in anyway, it is normal for you to get angry but your reaction when you get angry is what really matters. Do you spoil things when you get angry? You really need to get rid of this beast called anger in you. Anger can prevent your prayer from being answered, anger will drain you spirituality and physically there is nothing you gain when you react on anger. Anger will only earn you Bad reputation like "Mummy Ebenezer" in my street people already gave her name because she is known to be "hot temper"  because Any  small thing like this everywhere have spoil. In every aspect of our life we must learn how to control our emotions so that we won't offend God and the people in our Surrounding. 

    Anger can attract you more enemies, yes if you allow anger to overpower you, you might have more enemy because no one will want to be friend with you just because of thAt  beast in you. Anger can also make you Miss your helper. Change!!!!!


    Anger is the major cause of Domestic violence as most people can't tolerate nonsense so instead of chilling they fire back. This usually happen in marriages, friendship and relationships. I have seen relationship where boyfriend and girlfriend fight like wrestlers and I have also seen marriage where the husband beats the wife and also friendship where duo fights eachother which I think all These are caused by anger. Sometimes the wife can provoke the husband and vice versa which lead to fight between them same as relationships and friendship but I want you to know this today that anger will give you bad reputation because I don't think any lady in her right sense would settle with a man who always react on his anger and also I still believe no man would be able to manage a woman with hot temper and this reminds me of what happened last week in the newspaper where a redeem pastor died while separating a fight between a couple, this might not have happened if the couple had control over their anger now both of them are in prison for murder regretting their actions. Do you still beat your friend, fight your partner and insult your parents based on your anger? It's time for you to change because those couple in prison today can be you In prison  tomorrow if you don't caution yourself. Charity begins at home if you don't caution yourself now you don't know where you can find yourself tomorrow thus there is a need for you to change!!!.

    How  Can I Deal with Angry people?? 

    Do you have a angry boyfriend, girlfriend or friend??  The best way to deal with them is to avoid what makes you them angry. My father usually get angry and there are things that do cause his anger and that is if I don't sweep the house or fetch water, the next thing I will be hearing is insults that I myself won't be able to bear so to avoid his anger anytime I am at home I had to do the needful thing and as for my mom anytime She  talks to me and I notice what she is saying may spike my anger to raise voice on her I had to take excuse myself "Mir I want to  urinate" because if I should react on my anger or utter any word at that moment the statements that will come out may attract curse so it is better to do away with what you know might cause their anger.  This doesn't mean that you should not express displeasure if they do anything wrong according to one of the physics law that states that "Like charges Repel"  you can't solve anger with anger if your partner is the anger type you have to be calm whenever S/he is angry to avoid violence the moment you do this there won't be problem. After the scenario talk to him or her about their anger that is if the matter has settled down but if s/he refused to change then I think it's time to let go of such relationship.

    You can't change someone's that Doesn't want to be changed 

    There are some people who know about their anger but still won't change no mater how hard you try, I want you to know that you can't change anyone that doesn't want to be changed if you have tried your best and yet S/he still always react on their anger like any small thing he has started cursing your family, abusing you and threatening to beat you I think its best you get out of such relationship being it friendship, love relationship or marriage because if you continue to stay saying you will cope Or hoping for him or her to change  one day a angry man can shoot you dead and who loose at last?? Nah you 


    Infact you must always try as much as possible to avoid an angry man, alot of people has lost their lives to this anger, spirit of ALUTA doesn't mean you should Turn yourself to something else, when students protest most of them destroy things they act On their anger hence thirsty of revenge so they revenge by destroying things in which at the end they regret. This reminds me of a guy that provoked a policeman, the police man asked him to unlock his phone he got angry and started dragging with the police along the line the police got angry, he cock his gun and shot the guy based on his anger now he his in prison while the other guy is dead probably in grave by now.  We must try as much as possible not to react from our anger because the consequences might be difficult for us to bear. You can get angry it is normal but what you do when you get angry is what you should be careful of.

    I'm not saying you should be silent on everything no!! Whenever people get on your nerves protest and let them know what they do piss you off but don't react on your anger. If he curse you and you curse back the problem may persists but the moment you don't reply or you give a cool response the problem might Still  be solved tho this isn't easy but it is an habit that you must encourage yourself to practice.

    The anger of the dick Doesn't tear the pussy, you see when the dick get angry(Aroused) you will think it will destroy the pussy but the moment it enters the pussy after some minutes it gets soft to the extent that it won't be able to rise again the interpretation of this my illustration is that, you see that Dick is like an angry man, when you get angry you feel like destroying things the way the dick feels like destroying the pussy, you feel like to revenge, you feel like to harm other people around you but when you finally revenge and destroy things your eyes will be cleared and body will now calm regretting your actions. recall the dick fails to rise again same thing applicable to angry man, you might fail to rise again how? Because You might loose your job, relationship, friendship, customers and others because of this your anger. This is why I pen this down for you to know that anger doesn't solve any problem it only make things worse. The anger of the dick doesn't tear the pussy also teach us to learn how to control our emotions not only anger alone but all our emotions, if you can't control your emotions you may end up having an emotional trauma so the earlier the best. 

    In conclusion, Nobody is perfect we are all humans there is no how we won't get angry or be pissed off in one way or the other but we must be careful of how we react whenever we get angry. Anytime you are angry always have it at mind that the anger of a dick doesn't tear the pussy. This write up also touches me writing it as I have promised myself not to always react on my anger what about you? I hope you have learnt something today?

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